As I mentioned before, we had a great time with my dad when he was here. Needless to say, being with my dad when he takes care of himself is completely different from when he isn’t.

Since he’s gone back home, I’ve talked to him on the phone numerous times. Every time, he has sounded so good. He is now a pleasure to talk to. As a matter of fact, nowadays, sometimes his call is a day brightener for me.


Yesterday, I was telling my uncle, my dad’s brother, how good my dad is doing. I told him how great it is when my dad has his head on straight. I told him I am now enjoying a dad like I’ve never had before. I also mentioned that I realize this could all come to an end at any time. Therefore, I’m trying to be careful, not investing too many of my hopes in my dad and our relationship. My uncle said he thinks that is very wise on my part because I know “how he is”. He advised me to proceed with caution. As I often do, I was appreciative of my uncle’s input, but it kind of upset me. It is just sad when my uncle warns me the person my dad has become could disappear right before my eyes.

More family stuff:

My dad’s mom is still sick – sick in the head or whatever she is, and my poor grandfather is still killing himself to care for her. Also my mom’s mom is not doing good. She has been hit with Alzheimer’s and several strokes. Since she reached a point where my grandfather couldn’t care for her, she was recently put in a nursing home where she can be cared for 24/7.

For some time now, Ray and I have discussed when we should go back home to Louisiana. As of a few weeks ago, we had Labor Day (September) penciled in on our calendars. But because my grandfathers are bad off, I want to see my dad at least one more time while he’s in good shape, and because I want my family to meet Grayson, we’re going home Memorial Day Weekend.

Of course, any time you travel, there are costs involved. And I know we could use that money elsewhere, but I can’t tell you how happy I am that we’re going. This trip is so long overdue. It has been over a year since I’ve seen my grandparents. Even though I hope it isn’t the case, I must accept that this might be the last time I see some of my family – either because they might pass or because I might not get back down there for a while. And I so want everyone to meet Grayson. Like my uncle said, my relatives will be fighting over who gets to hold him! :)

As much as I love traveling and despite how long my “must vacation to” list is, there is no place I’d rather go right now than to see my family in Louisiana. And I won’t even really need any extra money for the trip because my souvenirs will be pictures – LOTS and LOTS of pictures!!! :)